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You want to know your child got to school. You do not want an advertising company to know the same thing. Those two goals sound similar and they are completely different. Here is how to keep one and switch off the other. Can I see where my child is? Yes, and this is the one โฆ
The rules are agreed and the phone is charged. Now comes the technical part, and it is easier than you would think. About five minutes in the settings locks the phone down so that it is safe out of the box. You only do this once. Where do these controls live? On iPhone, all of โฆ
The box is on the table and your child cannot stop looking at it. Giving a child their first phone is a big moment. The best thing you can do is agree the rules before you hand it over. Not after. Rules are so much easier to set on day one than to claw back โฆ
The photo is open, your thumb is hovering over Share, and it really is a lovely one. That half-second pause is where all of this lives. We have covered a lot of ground on sharing photos of children. Here is the whole thing squeezed into one checklist you can run in ten seconds. What do โฆ
Somewhere on the internet there are photos of your child from the day they were born. They did not choose a single one of them. That is easy to miss in all the love and the excitement, and it is worth sitting with for a minute. What did they never actually agree to? Being posted โฆ
Some photos of our children look funny and adorable in the moment. They are still the ones that should not go online. Not to a public account, and honestly not even to close friends. This one is gentle but important, because some moments simply are not meant for an audience. Which photos should I think โฆ
Be honest for a second. How many people can actually see the photos you post of your children? For most of us the real answer is "far more than I would be comfortable with". What does an open account really mean? A public profile that anyone on the internet can find. Hundreds of "followers" you โฆ
We all love sharing photos of our kids. The first day of school, the birthday cake, the football match. A single post can quietly hand strangers a surprising amount, though โ including exactly where to find your child. What can one photo actually give away? Geotags and check-ins, which pin your location on a map. โฆ
Think about how your phone felt before you started this. Every message in one pile, spam sitting next to your mother, work arriving at eleven at night. That is the thing this series has spent thirty posts taking apart. Here is the whole system on one page, so you never have to hunt for it โฆ
You have built the whole system and it works. Then one evening you hand out your real number "just this once", and the leak starts again. None of these slip-ups are disasters. They are just little habits that creep back in, and each one has a simple fix. Why does giving out my real number โฆ